‘FEMINISM’-A WEAPON

‘FEMINISM’-A WEAPON

This is a male dominated society ! We are women,we  need equal rights! We are being diverted from our aim,our way to success is hindered, we need freedom to move,talk ,do anything and everything.WHY ARE WE BEING DOMINATED? WHY ARE OUR WINGS BEING CHOPPED AWAY, ALWAYS ? We are innocent,need some help,no one bothers to care for us,women have to be protected,right?                                                                          We all have often heard such a kind of stuff! But today I have something to say ,against this. Come on! girls ,it’s high time now! Stop shielding yourselves using this FEMINISM as a shield. Yes, I do agree that a female was not treated equally in the society,but this was the case many,many years ago.Decades ago! Today ,the world has changed ,the kind of oppression women suffered years ago doesn’t exist.I know in remote sections all this goes on even till today,but am not focusing on that,for now.That is a serious issue,we also need to really fight against this!! Let us keep this aside.                                                                                                                                                Some women ,simply use this FEMINISM as a weapon.I cannot say all do the same thing,am talking about those few who use it for selfish reasons.You can’t get a huge discount on fruits from the vendor,just because you are a women,if you are a terrorist,a policeman can’t pardon you, because you are a women.We talk about equality right,so now because of our female favoring approach ,do you think men get equal treatment.No!Definitely not! Take a simple example,in a crowded fair,accidentally if a man’s hand even brushes a female’s hand,she has the right to scream,tie him under false allegation and people around too believe in her and then what happens next?Nobody is ready to confirm his true intention and,all start banging him like anything .And do you think this will be the case if the situation reverses,how will men get their rights.                                                                                                                                                Why do these selfish women always need tag of being ‘A women’?Is a women so weak?We are underestimating ourselves by this.Don’t you think the same?I know being a women ,what I am speaking is not at all good,i agree! I think rather than thinking and talking about equality ,we must implement it in our society.In a BEST bus why are 60% of the seats reserved for women,why no equality here?If a man can stand and travel a woman can too…Stop saying i am a women,don’t make yourselves feel different,gender is nothing.It’s just a physical diversity!We all are equal ,no male ,no female from today only human beings with equal potentials,that’s important ,isn’t it?

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“BEHIND THE MASK”…

“BEHIND THE MASK”…

Right from the day we step on this planet ,we are bounded by a number of people.Some guide us to our future,some imbibe values within us and some have an influential impact on us.In our growing years too, we come across many people and build different relations with them.Some relations bloom as time passes ,while some fail to bloom like others do.But some relations are mysterious;these seem like blooming ,but actually do not.There is a certain personal agenda  behind such relations that’s not visible to us,as it’s behind the mask.

We start liking that person ,and soon this liking turns into a relation called’FRIENDSHIP’  without even our notice.And then ‘Friends for ever’ and all !! We lose our sight and trust the person blindly.We being dipped in the sugary sweet syrup of friendship cannot recognize the hidden bitter devil in that person.His evil motive remain unfolded as we ourselves are blindfolded at such times.We are not ready to face the reality ,nor do we want to listen anything against that person.We are trapped, or we can say ‘hypnotized‘ !!But how long will a devil hide his identity? One day or the other he has to show what he is actually.The day this happens ,our world turns upside down,we aren’t able to digest the truth.The devil takes away everything from us,leaving us lonely midway.Once who was a reason of our happiness,now becomes a cause for our grief.We then no more trust anyone ,every person then falls a victim of our suspicion.

At such times the one who supports us is the real gem,the true friend.We all know that every coin has two faces ,if one’s dark the other has to be bright.Life follows the same theory,if there are bad people around, there also have to be good ones,we must recognize them.We must think rationally,weigh all the pros and cons of a relation and then take a step ahead.It’s our choice that matters.A good companion can enlighten our life ,a bad one can do nothing but ruin it. It’s better to be awake while dealing with this society.We cannot guarantee anyone’s purity.Might be,one of your friend texting a message to you right now ,playing games with you………He might have a plan ready for your destruction! I just want to say one thing BEWARE ! SOMEONES WATCHING YOU CONSTANTLY!

Adieu-A goodbye.

Adieu-A goodbye.

We have a short but a sweet life,and in this life we face many ups and downs.We meet many people,try out different things,build relations and so on.What ever we do ,we ensure we gain happiness or satisfaction from it.We try to live our life to it’s fullest…but if life is too sweet there is no fun ,bitter moments have to come.One such moment is the day we say goodbye to our school.Right from the kinder garden to the tenth many,many years pass,nothing really changes.The same routine goes on getting up early ,going to school etc and then we get used to it.In the early years we just hate the school,but as time passes gradually we start liking it and then loving it.This might be because of the friends we find there.As soon as we step in year of tenth standard we start realizing that NOW TIME’S UP!! We get out of our little dream world and understand that’WE ARE NO MORE A CHILD ! We mature our thoughts mature ,we leave behind everything and evolve.We do all that we can do to score good percentage in boards.Career counselling lectures,extra classes ,tests,late night studies all become an integral part of our life.

We get ourselves ready for the fierce fight of tomorrow,Whole of the year we keep pushing ourselves,we boost our morale.All this shackles our emotions,we  forget our school completely,we fail to create cherishable moments and soon the day pops up when we need to say ‘GOODBYE’ to our sweet little second home.It is hard to believe this at that point of time ,but that’s the truth.EVERYTHING THAT COMES HAS TO GO ONE DAY.We reach our life’s first destination but leave behind something extremely precious.Tears dwell up.I can say it’s the most challenging phase of one’s life.We need to gather all scattered memories and with a strong and rigid heart we need to MOVE ON…What a life we humans live? Why do we have emotions if we cannot express them?It’s better not to have any emotions and live a peaceful life atleast.No sorrow ,no grief,no happiness and no joy.Pure peace.But that’s not possible ,we have this feature that distinguishes us from other  animals.So we must respect it.

Keeping all this aside still the pain remains and it continues to poke our heart forever and ever .Nothing can be done,we need to endure it with a smile as,life has to go on.

Ambitions.

Ambitions.

Ambitions,dreams are what keep our life going.Ambitions can be described as a desire within us to excel.Our aspirations and desires give a route to our life.It can be the finest ray of hope in the the dark tunnel of discouragement.But we are often mistaken to understand the meaning of the word ‘AMBITION’.A very few people know what it means in true sense.We as children or teenagers have different ambitions,we have a burning desire to succeed in the profession of our choice.An ambition is one’s own wish.Being a doctor or an engineer isn’t success.The real meaning of success is that we must be happy,satisfied and contended with the kind of work we do.                            Success comes when we follow what our heart says.But parents often tend to  enforce their dreams,opinions on the children ,and this is not the case of recent times.This has started many ages or decades ago and is continued even till today. It’s high time now parents need to understand that their child’s happiness is much more precious than their so called prestigious ‘STATUS’ in the society.                                                                                      The society has nothing to do with us.People around are opinionated.Why  to listen to them? Why do their opinions matter so much?It’s our life and we are free to take decisions regarding it.Due to constant pressure from parents to excel and fear of the society students many a times feel that they cannot stand up to all these expectations and find suicide to be the best option to get rid of it.Is this right? Marks,ranks,pointers,merit list all matters ,but to what extent?We need to set a limit to it.According to me the real purity,capability of a person cannot be judged by his ‘Qualification Certificate’.It  shows mere numbers,certain algebraic terms.It cannot depict one’s character.An uneducated might be destined to meet the skies!Neither we nor our degrees can predict our destiny.If a person has to make a difference, he will!    His educational background has nothing to do with his success.It cannot hinder him or stop him from achieving his goal.Imagine if MR.SACHIN TENDULKAR  was an engineer ,then could INDIA get it’s ‘MASTER BLASTER’. NO right! So it is better to leave the decision on the children about their career.Parents mustn’t burden their child.Each and every little one is capable enough.Let them show the world what they can do.Every one can make a difference.And if at all parents want to contribute to their child’s success they must support and encourage him/her,and leave the rest for them to do.They can and they definitely will.